Tag: intentional love

  • Author’s Note

    This poem is about the difference between performance and presence. About words that are used to impress versus words that are spoken because they are true. I wrote this for the kind of connection that doesn’t need charm, tricks, or grand gestures—only honesty and attention.

    Quietly Rearranged is about how real affection doesn’t demand change, but inspires it. How being genuinely seen can shift the way you stand in the world without ever asking you to move. It’s a reminder that the most powerful influence someone can have on us is simply being who they are—openly, softly, and without pretense.

    Some people speak to gain. Some people speak to give. This poem knows the difference.


    A quiet, intimate image representing emotional presence and subtle transformation inspired by love
    Real connection doesn’t demand change—it quietly inspires it.

    Quietly Rearranged
    Poetry by Rowan Evans

    I’m not a charmer,
    I don’t work with snakes—
    I say fuck fakes.
    I’m a truth‑teller,
    and my words
    are worth
    a fortune.

    He says sweet nothings
    that are actually nothing—
    just words in costume,
    trying to gain things.

    I whisper sweet nothings
    and twist them into somethings.
    I’ll say every thought
    of what you mean to me.
    So go ahead—put me on the spot,
    I’ll talk
    until you tell me to stop.

    Alright—so here I go.
    What do I like about you?

    Your eyes.
    Your smile.
    The way your voice softens
    when you laugh,
    when you say my name
    it becomes the softest sound.

    And your personality?
    Second to none.

    It’s the way your existence
    quietly rearranges me.
    Makes me want to stand straighter,
    choose better,
    reach further—
    not because you asked,
    but because you exist.

    I want to improve
    simply knowing you’re real.


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  • Author’s Note

    This piece came from the frustration of being misunderstood — from people assuming I give attention freely or that I’m drowning in affection I don’t actually receive. The truth is, I love deliberately. I give slowly. I’m intentional with my emotional presence, and I’m careful with my heart. This poem is a reminder that not all love is loud or scattered; some of us choose where we pour ourselves, and it’s never accidental.


    An androgynous figure carved from pale stone with faint glowing cracks, symbolizing intentional love and emotional depth.
    A body carved from intention — slow to give, deliberate in love, and shaped by quiet emotional truth.

    Carved From Intention
    Poetry by Rowan Evans

    It’s kind of wild how
    some people assume,
    I’ve got attention from
    every direction.
    Like I’ve got love
    being thrown at me.
    But that’s not true,
    and even if it was—
    it wouldn’t matter much.
    Because love to me,
    doesn’t mean
    what love means
    to them.

    It’s even weirder how
    people assume
    that I just give attention.
    Like I don’t do
    what I do
    with any real thought
    or intention.
    They swear I’m drowning
    in affection,
    as if every soft word
    ever spoken near me
    belongs to me.

    But I don’t scatter pieces
    of myself like confetti—
    I give slowly, deliberately,
    to the few my soul
    bends toward.
    They think I’m easy to reach,
    but I’m not.
    I’m cautious.
    I’m careful.
    I’m carved from intentions
    people rarely notice.

    Maybe that’s why
    the attention they imagine
    feels hollow to me—
    it’s not the kind I want,
    not the kind I give,
    not the kind I’d stay for.


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