Tag: finding your path

  • Author’s Note

    This piece started with a line I came across:

    “If you are in a hurry, take the long way around.”

    I don’t know where it actually comes from—but the idea stuck.

    We’re taught to move fast. To find the most direct path. To get from where we are to where we want to be as efficiently as possible.

    But some things don’t survive that kind of movement.

    Some growth only happens in the detours. In the delays. In the parts that feel unnecessary while you’re in them.

    This piece isn’t about slowing down for the sake of it.

    It’s about recognizing that sometimes, the long way isn’t a setback—

    it’s the only path that lets you arrive intact.

    Rowan Evans


    Winding road through hills at sunset symbolizing a long and meaningful journey.
    Not quickly—but whole.

    The Long Way Around
    Poetry by Rowan Evans

    If you’re in a hurry,
    go the long way ’round—
    because sometimes
    the straight line
    is the one that breaks you.

    It’s not ease
    that shapes you.

    It’s the winding roads
    that make you.

    It’s the bends,
    the breaks,
    the slow turns
    that teach you.

    It’s the corners,
    the pauses,
    the places you swore
    you’d never have to pass through.

    And somehow,
    by the time you reach the end,
    you realize
    the long way
    was the only way
    you could have survived.

    Yet still,
    you arrive—

    not quickly,
    but whole.

    The long way
    is the way
    that lasts.


    Journey into the Hexverse!

    [Where the Tide Calls Me]
    What if feeling stuck isn’t about being lost—but about resisting where you’re meant to go? Where the Tide Calls Me explores belonging, movement, and the courage to follow an unseen pull.

    [Just Before I Arrive]
    A voice calls from somewhere just out of reach. Just Before I Arrive explores the feeling of being guided through a dream toward connection—only to wake up before you get there.

    [Dreaming of Other Streets]
    What if the places that feel like home aren’t the ones you’ve lived in? This poem explores dreams, memory, and the quiet search for belonging in unfamiliar places

    If you’re interested in more poetry, you can find it here → [The Library of Ashes]

  • Author’s Note

    There’s a difference between feeling stuck… and being somewhere you were never meant to stay.

    For a long time, I couldn’t tell which one I was experiencing.

    It felt like I was standing still—like something in my life wasn’t moving forward, like I was waiting for a shift that never came. But the more I sat with that feeling, the more it started to change.

    It stopped feeling like stillness.

    And started feeling like resistance.

    This piece comes from that realization.

    That sometimes the discomfort isn’t because you’re lost—
    it’s because something in you is trying to move, and you haven’t let it yet.

    Not every path is meant to be walked on solid ground.

    Some of them ask you to trust the pull…
    and step into something uncertain.

    Rowan Evans


    Person walking into the ocean at sunset symbolizing following a personal path and embracing change.
    Some of us aren’t meant to stay on land—we’re meant to follow the tide wherever it leads.

    Where the Tide Calls Me
    Poetry by Rowan Evans

    Do you ever feel stuck?
    Like you could stand on the ledge,
    overlooking everything
    and just scream—

    Do you ever feel
    you’re all out of luck?
    No matter how hard you try,
    it’s still a struggle to get by.

    Like the shores
    you walk,
    were never your own.

    The waves would talk,
    whispering of home.
    A land far away
    from where I was born.

    The world keeps saying
    this is where I belong,
    but the sea says otherwise.

    So I—
    wade into the waves,
    praying for better days,
    searching for a new place.

    Eyes focused.

    Ears turned
    and listening.

    I used to feel stuck—
    like the ledge was the only place
    I could breathe.

    But now,
    with the water rising around my feet,
    I finally understand:

    I was never meant
    to stand above the world
    and scream.

    I was meant
    to follow the tide.

    I walk deeper,
    letting the water rise—
    because some of us
    aren’t called
    to stay on land.

    And when the waves call—
    I answer.

    Not with fear,
    not with doubt,
    but with the quiet certainty
    that home
    is not where I started…

    but where the tide
    is pulling me.


    Journey into the Hexverse!

    [I Was Already On My Way]
    What if the places that call to you aren’t random? I Was Already On My Way explores identity, travel, and the realization that some paths have been forming long before we recognize them.

    [121° East]
    A single line of longitude becomes something more—a reflection of distance, identity, and the quiet decision to become who you were always meant to be.

    [The Quiet Inside the Noise]
    What happens when a restless mind finally quiets—not by silence, but by focusing on one person? The Quiet Inside the Noise explores love, fixation, and finding calm in connection.

    If you’re interested in more poetry, you can find it here → [The Library of Ashes]

  • Author’s Note

    Some things don’t arrive all at once.

    They show up in fragments–small moments, passing interests, people you meet, places that linger in your thoughts longer than they should.

    At first, it feels random.

    Disconnected.

    But over time, patterns start to form.

    This piece comes from recognizing one of those patterns.

    Looking back and realizing that what felt like curiosity… was actually direction. That the pull I kept feeling wasn’t new–it was something that had been building quietly for years.

    And maybe that’s what alignment feels like.

    Not a sudden shift.

    But a slow realization that you’ve been moving toward something long before you understood why.

    Rowan Evans


    Person standing at a crossroads with signs pointing toward distant cities symbolizing life direction and travel.
    Some paths don’t begin when you choose them—they’ve been forming long before you realize you’re on them.

    They say—
    you’re an American,
    you can’t change it.
    It runs through the blood,
    burrows in the marrow.
    You’re an American today,
    you’ll be one tomorrow.

    Sure—
    that’s true.

    American is the label
    I wear.

    But it’s not the one
    I claim.

    These are the lands
    I was born in—
    but they’ve never
    been home.

    I’ve known
    since I was fourteen
    I was meant
    to leave.

    Started planning
    at seventeen.

    Eighteen—
    applied for a job
    in Japan.

    I pictured
    walking Tokyo’s streets,
    slipping through alleyways—

    a quiet life
    in a city alive.

    Nineteen—
    felt the pull
    of Korea,
    the hum of Seoul
    in my soul.

    Twenty—
    I wandered China
    in my mind.

    But it never felt
    quite right.

    So I kept searching,
    listening
    to the shifts
    inside.

    And then—

    a pattern emerged.

    I didn’t notice it
    at first.

    Manila.
    The Philippines.

    A thread
    that’s been there
    since I was eighteen.

    Subtle—
    at the start.

    Two kids
    I took
    under my wing.

    That’s how it began.

    And then it kept appearing—
    in the friends
    I met online,

    in the people
    I was drawn to.

    It felt like
    a magnetic pull.

    In the last year—
    maybe more—

    it’s become stronger
    than ever before.

    And somewhere
    in that pull—

    is her.

    Not the reason—

    but proof

    that I was already
    on my way.

    This doesn’t feel
    like curiosity anymore.

    It feels like alignment.

    Like something in me
    has been pointing
    in one direction
    all along—

    and I’m only now
    choosing
    to follow it.


    Journey into the Hexverse!

    [121° East]
    A single line of longitude becomes something more—a reflection of distance, identity, and the quiet decision to become who you were always meant to be.

    [Coordinated of Escape]
    A deeply introspective poem about overthinking, emotional loops, and the desire to start over. Coordinates of Escape traces the journey from internal chaos to a deliberate destination—both physical and personal.

    [Of No Single Nation]
    What if belonging isn’t tied to where you’re from? Of No Single Nation explores identity beyond borders, reframing home as something found in connection rather than geography.

    If you’re interested in more poetry, you can find it here → [The Library of Ashes]